Saturday, June 6, 2015

Nuthaus vs. New Place

Over the past few months, as we've contemplated moving, I have thought long and hard about things I will miss about the Nuthaus and things toward which I am looking forward. Here are some of them:

THINGS I WILL MISS ABOUT THE NUTHAUS

1. Being downtown (or: location, location, location).

2. The view from the top of the garage across the street (also sort of a location thing).

3. Crochet Guy, Grandpa, the Dude with One Dreadlock, the Taco Cabana staff, the guy at Subway who's always a li'l burnt, the CVS cashier who has a head-full of dreadlocks and is so helpful and patient to everyone, the across-the-street apartment drama, the guy from South Carolina who's always asking for odd jobs (gave him one once; he sucked at it), the guy who usually sits in front of the Baptist church and who has seven grown kids and LOVES Mal, the guy who sits with that guy and who unfailingly says to me, "Mama's got her hands full!", the crazy next-door neighbors, the lady with the crocheted apron who sells carnations outside the Scientology building.

4. Hungry but don't feel like cooking? Walk half a mile and choose from more than half a dozen different cuisines (represented by 20 or more restaurants).

5. The sirens (from Mal).

6. Being able to hang out downtown; I know, we can do that no matter where we live, but biking down is so much better than driving up!

7. Walking/biking distance from Barton, Deep Eddy, downtown, West Campus, Allendale, etc. Hair salon, doctor, lawyer, counselor, grocery store, veterinarian, bank, etc.

8. Being able to bike without building up new muscle and cardiovascular systems.

9. Walking to caffeine.

THINGS I'M EXCITED ABOUT AT OUR NEW PLACE

1. Not having to run across the parking lot to Taco Cabana to use the restroom (or: two bathrooms!).

2. The swimming pool!

3. The "woods."

4. Two thermostats! I don't know how we'll take advantage of this unless Daphne goes somewhere for a week, but it's still kind of neat.

5. Not having the stuff stolen from our patio (if someone really wants to scale the exterior of the building to mount our second-floor balcony and take a cushion... well, I wish I could at least watch).

6. Not having people walking in our front door.

7. Hidey-holes for all of our messes.

8. Climate control that isn't sabotaged by poor insulation.

9. On-site maintenance.

10. Not hearing our crazy next-door neighbors' romantic drama four feet from our bedroom window.

11. Actually knowing our next-door neighbor by name! It's DeAndre, I believe, and she has a couple of kids, including a daughter who looks a bit older than Daphne and a son who looks a lot older than Daphne. I know her name not because she introduced herself (which she did later, but I don't remember that kind of thing), but because she took all of our boxes into her foyer the first couple of days until she realized we were going to get a LOT of boxes. Anyway, she left a note on our front door and I always remember things better after I see them in writing.

12. Biking challenges.

13. Non-stacked washer and dryer! No more freaking front-load!

14. Getting to know a new area of Austin, and probably a lot of Bee Cave.

*******

As a side note, I'm ready not to have a lockbox on our house! I was looking back through our lease today and we could have declined if we had paid $150. It would have been worth it! I wonder if that means we could have declined showings, too... Because I was over it after the third one. Today really chapped me, though. A lot of times, it's a representative from our management company who shows the house.

Yesterday after 3 PM, I got a text that said, "Afternoon I would like to show your house at 1:00 PM." It was a Realtor from an independent agency. I asked what day, and she said Saturday. Fine.

So we got our attic taken care of, and cleaned that up (stuff dropped into the kitchen from the dusty access, and plus we have to climb over kitchen stuff, and a glass bowl broke, etc.) then we tidied the stuff up on the back porch so you can still walk back there. I woke Daphne up at noon (if you've missed that discussion: she sleeps a swing shift schedule), and we straightened up her room.

By about 1, Mal was getting restless and needed a nap. I was trying to keep him awake until after the showing, but by 1:15, he was getting hysterical (giddy then screaming) and accidentally violent, so I texted the Realtor at 1:20 and said, "Are you on your way? My baby desperately needs a nap..." She texted back, "We got held up at the other house. I'm sorry. I think they've decided on it."

Geez, lady! Let me know if you're not going to come! Some of us like live in our house.

So, yeah. Ready not to have to tidy up unless I want to because I have exciting people coming over. Preferably to bring me delicious food.

Friday, June 5, 2015

Austin's Bike Lanes, a tutorial

Austin is one of those places that really wants to be bike friendly, and that almost *is* bike friendly... Just that not everyone's on board yet. 

First thing I'll say is that people don't tend to be openly hostile to me as a bike rider. Austin's a little too laid back for that. If anything, they go overboard to be "nice." I'll be approaching a 4-way stop, and a motorist will be stopped; instead of going when they see me, they hit the brakes again just to make sure I'm actually going to observe the stop sign. Well, I am... so GO. Don't waste my time! Admittedly, sometimes, after I've started decelerating and they're still not moving, I'll shake my head, start pumping, and go on through without stopping because... why???

However, people don't seem to understand things about the new bike lanes that are starting to proliferate the city.

Heading north from MLK on Rio Grande. Bi-directional on the same side, even!
These lanes? People seem to understand them. They've been around for a long time. They're clearly marked, and while I've seen several delivery or moving trucks parked in the lanes to load/unload, they tend to be free of vehicles or pedestrians.

However...

Awesome protected bike lane going south on Guadalupe from 24th to MLK.
Guadalupe still has the old-school "here, ride in the gutter, cyclist" lane northbound, but this lane southbound has opened since we moved to the Nuthaus in 2013. It's great! The lane is specially surfaced (which I like except after it's rained; I've seen a couple of bikes hydroplane as they came into a stop or turn too fast when the road was damp) to be smooth, and it's protected from traffic by parking.

Therein lies one problem: You're supposed to park, look both ways, then cross to the sidewalk. But no. Many pedestrians, during particularly busy times, will avoid the people-packed sidewalks and use this cool new apparently deserted boulevard. I don't have a bell anymore (mine fell off), so you'll have to excuse me when I scream at you as I approach at 12 miles per hour or so.

Yesterday when Mal and I were riding, a guy parked, saw his friends huddled around a news stand about half a block away, and started slowly meandering toward them, trash-talking the whole way. In the bike lane. "EXCUSE ME!" and he moved in good humor. I should have waited longer to alert him. A li'l pee in the old pants might cure this guy of this forever.

You know what this lane is *not*? It is NOT MOTORCYCLE PARKING. For the first time, also yesterday, I saw an entire motorcycle parked length-wise across the bike lane. Ironically, the parking space to the left of it was empty! There was no way to get up on the sidewalk, and I was fortunately able to use the empty parking space to get around the motorcycle, but if someone had backed into the spot or there had been a car there, I would have had to dismount and walk around the obstruction.

Finally, yesterday I ended up behind two cyclists originally using the lane in the way it was intended, albeit much more slowly than I desired to ride. I was waiting for an open space to get past them, as they were riding two-along. Then I think they saw a place they wanted to eat, and they slowed and finally stopped, maybe to read the menu posted in the window, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE LANE.

They were appropriately sheepish when I screamed (I wasn't startled; it was the third obstacle in half a mile, so I was on guard), so I think they'll not stop in the bike lane any further.

Today, for the first time (probably surprisingly) I was almost struck by a vehicle turning right. Memo to motorists: when turning right across a bike lane, look first! It's just like turning right from the middle lane, even though that's the only lane available to you. Not only did she turn, she started to turn and realized traffic was backed up, and stopped in the middle of the bike lane! Meanwhile, I had a green light and was headed full-bore through the intersection. (No contact; we're all fine.)

New lanes partially open and partially still under construction going east and west on 3rd Street.
As you can see from the picture above, downtown, trucks do use the bike lane to load and unload. I guess that's kosher, but weaving in and out of traffic (when there is some) makes me nervous; I'd rather just ride in the street. When it's clear, it's wonderful! These are also very smoothly-surfaced.

To recap, use the bike lanes thusly:
1) To ride a bicycle.
2) To stop on a bicycle because you are at a light or have to yield to a pedestrian, as indicated in the lane.
3) To quickly mount or dismount your bicycle.
4) As a pedestrian to get from your car to the sidewalk and/or back.
5) As a pedestrian to get from the sidewalk to the crosswalk and/or back.

I think that's about it!

Oh, another request? If you're parallel parking, please be careful! There are those flexible barriers, but if you hit one of them, you're probably going to give an oncoming cyclist a heart-attack. :)

And, yes, I know there are rude cyclists. I can be one. But the bike lanes give such a sense of security, they should be secure places!

KTHXBAI

Thursday, June 4, 2015

An Anniversary, in our own words

This weekend is the third anniversary of the weekend when James and I got reacquainted after so many years. People ask if it was Facebook where we reconnected, and that's only sort of the case. We'd kept in touch ever since high school.

I wrote him when he was in the Navy. We spoke on the phone and via letters several times over the years. How *did* we find people before the internet? Well, anyway, I'd found him somehow when he and his brother's family were dirt farming in Oklahoma, and then again later when we communicated through Yahoo! emails.

So, yeah, this time we were communicating via Facebook, which he hates. But he didn't have a phone at the time, and it was the easiest way to do things. I have deleted emails, but fortunately Facebook saved some pretty important stuff.

I'd been trying to get James down to Dallas to visit for some time. He always had an excuse. Then my friend Sherri and I were planning a trip to Austin, the very trip where I decided once and for all to move here, in fact.

I wanted desperately to be at that funeral. I even looked at flights or the possibility of driving up Sunday... But it didn't work.

We chatted a couple of times after the funeral, which was difficult for him, as one would imagine, but also for different reasons than the standard very sad loss of a father.

It seemed like that on top of some other life experiences he was having had messed with his head and he was just out of it.

Except this was pretty funny:
Reading back over the messages is a little tough, because I was trying so hard to be humorous and carefree, and James was so distant and edgy. We were both trying to be friendly and support each other, but now that I know us together... it's just jarring.

  • May 28, 2012
  • Laura Gatannah
    Laura Gatannah


    What the hell happened to you, man??
  • May 29, 2012
  • James Gatannah
    James Gatannah


    (Not that I'll be spending much time in front of it now...just happened to check in at random)
  • Laura Gatannah
    Laura Gatannah


    He lives!!

    Just glad you're still around. wink emoticon
  • May 30, 2012
  • James Gatannah
    James Gatannah


    I immersed myself in the Dresden Files and read the entire series all in a row, just because I've been in that kind of mood. Couldn't really motivate myself to look at a computer.

  • June 2, 2012
  • Laura Gatannah
    Laura Gatannah


    Hey! Please please please... I desperately need a visit, sir. I have a business trip next week but will be home Friday evening. Could Tulsa spare you for like 48 hours? I have a Groupon for an amazing meal, and I could cook for you the rest of the time. I am planning to move to Austin in August and would love to see you before I go. Let me know.
  • June 5, 2012
  • James Gatannah
    James Gatannah


    I need more room than facebook provides for a response. Do you still check laura_hattaway@hotmail.com, or is there a better place to send it?
  • Laura Gatannah
    Laura Gatannah


    That will work.

Yeah, I straight-up begged. And, no, I'm not sharing that email with you. It was basically to the tune of, "These aren't the droids you're looking for." In other words, no. I think I wrote back with, "Yeah, I'm totes coming." Then this happened back over on Facebook.

Right. Blank-o.

So I spent the rest of the next day wondering what the heck to do. In the end, I said I was going to drive up, and James did actually tell me where he lived. So I went. And I cooked. And we ate at Cheesecake Factory and went to this place and talked and really caught up on 20 years or so of our histories.

Then I drove home, expecting nothing.




But you know what? Three years later, I'm starting to believe him.